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Mental health, relationships and safety

Worry, mood and relationships can change during pregnancy. You do not have to wait for a crisis to mention anxiety, low mood, intrusive thoughts, pressure, control or feeling unsafe.

22 direct answersUpdated July 2026General pregnancy guidance

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Do, don’t and check first

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Do

  • Tell a pregnancy-care professional about current or past anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, trauma, eating disorders or other mental-health care.
  • Choose one person and one professional contact you can reach when thoughts or circumstances become difficult.
  • Ask to speak with a clinician alone when privacy would make it easier to talk honestly.
  • Make a simple safety plan for transport, medicines, documents, money and emergency contact if home does not feel safe.

Don’t

  • Do not stop prescribed mental-health medicine suddenly because of pregnancy; arrange prompt review with the prescriber.
  • Do not dismiss persistent anxiety, low mood, panic or intrusive thoughts as a personal failure or something pregnancy requires you to tolerate.
  • Do not accept monitoring, threats, forced sex, reproductive pressure or control of money, transport, food or medical care as support.
  • Do not wait alone with thoughts of harming yourself or the baby, severe confusion, hallucinations or immediate danger.

Check first

  • Ask for help when mood, fear, panic, sleep or intrusive thoughts are interfering with daily life, relationships or self-care.
  • Ask how existing therapy, prescriptions and crisis plans should continue through pregnancy and after birth.
  • Ask privately for local confidential support when someone controls, threatens, coerces or hurts you.

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  • Generally okayOccasional worry that settles and does not disrupt daily lifeUse support, rest and simple coping strategies, and mention changes at care visits without waiting for them to become severe.
  • Check firstPersistent anxiety, low mood, panic or intrusive thoughtsContact a health professional; effective support can include practical help, therapy, medicine review or a combination.
  • Check firstA prescribed mental-health medicineContinue as prescribed until prompt review with the clinician who understands the treatment and pregnancy.
  • Check firstControl, threats, forced sex or physical harmSeek confidential professional support; use emergency help immediately when you are in danger.
  • AvoidWaiting with thoughts of harm or loss of contact with realityDo not wait—use local emergency or crisis help and tell them that you are pregnant or recently pregnant.

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  1. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyBipolar disorder and psychiatric medicinesPregnancy and the postnatal period need a coordinated mental-health and maternity plan when you have bipolar disorder or take psychiatric medicines.Contact careCheck with your care team
  2. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyDepression, anxiety and panicPersistent low mood, loss of interest, dread, panic or anxiety that affects sleep or daily life deserves care during pregnancy, not endurance in silence.Contact careCheck with your care team
  3. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyDomestic abuse, coercion or feeling unsafeAbuse can be physical, sexual, emotional, financial or controlling; it is not your fault and confidential support is available.Urgent helpUrgent help
  4. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyEating disorder, body image and food restrictionAn eating disorder or renewed restriction, bingeing, purging or distress about body change deserves confidential specialist support.Contact careCheck with your care team
  5. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyFinancial, housing or work insecurityMoney, housing and employment problems can become health and safety issues by limiting food, transport, medicines, rest or access to appointments.Contact careCheck with your care team
  6. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyHelp with alcohol, nicotine or drug useAsk for confidential support with alcohol, nicotine, cannabis, prescribed dependence-forming medicines or other drugs; safer change depends on the substance and pattern of use.Contact careCheck with your care team
  7. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyIntrusive thoughts or thoughts of harmThoughts of suicide, self-harm, harming someone else, or being unable to stay safe need immediate help and should not be managed alone.Urgent helpUrgent help
  8. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyLoneliness and social isolationLack of practical or emotional support can affect safety, appointments, food, rest and mental health even without a formal diagnosis.Contact careCheck with your care team
  9. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyMania, psychosis or loss of contact with realityHallucinations, fixed false beliefs, severe confusion, extreme agitation or days with almost no sleep and escalating energy need urgent psychiatric and maternity assessment.Urgent helpUrgent help
  10. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyPerinatal OCD, compulsions and intrusive thoughtsUnwanted intrusive thoughts and compulsive checking or avoidance can be symptoms of OCD and do not by themselves mean someone wants to act on the thoughts.Contact careCheck with your care team
  11. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyPregnancy after miscarriage, stillbirth or infant lossA new pregnancy after loss can hold hope, fear, grief and numbness together; none of those reactions predicts the outcome or reflects poor attachment.Contact careCheck with your care team
  12. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyADHD, autism and sensory or communication accommodationsExecutive-function, sensory and communication needs can affect appointments and care without being a lack of interest or capacity.Contact careCheck with your care team
  13. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyAmbivalence or not feeling bonded during pregnancyBonding is not a required instant feeling; ambivalence, numbness or gradual connection can coexist with attentive care.Generally okayGeneral guidance
  14. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyGrief and bereavement during pregnancyGrief can affect sleep, appetite, concentration and daily function without following a fixed timeline or cancelling other feelings about pregnancy.Contact careCheck with your care team
  15. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyPrevious birth trauma or intense fear of birthSevere fear or trauma symptoms deserve early discussion so appointments, consent, continuity and birth planning can reduce avoidable distress.Contact careCheck with your care team
  16. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyRelationship conflict and couples supportConflict may rise around workload, money, sex, family or expectations, but fear, coercion and violence are not ordinary communication problems.Contact careCheck with your care team
  17. Mental health, relationships and safety · Mental health and safetyTherapy, counselling and support groupsPsychological support can be used during pregnancy, but provider training, confidentiality, method, severity and crisis backup matter.Generally okayGeneral guidance

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